“I always have this imagination, something I want to use. I don’t understand the idea of leisure time.” ~ Cher Wang

PAJAMA DAYS by Joanna Zarkadas Here's to pajama days, And the people who celebrate them. Here's to comfort over style, Uncombed hair and faces without makeup. Hats off to reading all day Or binge watching the latest Netflix series. Kudos to cold pizza for breakfast, Or hot buttered popcorn for dinner. Blue ribbons for long phone conversations with friends, And lazy couch lounging by the fire. Gold medals for forgetting about "to do" lists, Bathrooms that need cleaning, Or bills that need paying. Cheers to taking a day off every now and again Without remorse, without guilt, without judgment. High fives to sometimes doing whatever you want, When you want, and Eating whatever suits your fancy, No matter the carb count or sugar content. Here's to pajama days, And a round of applause for those who know they deserve them! ~ as posted at Your Daily Poem (September 7, 2023).
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Ah, I can just see it now — me in my jade green silk pajamas reclining on a chaise lounge, sipping a nice cup of darjeeling, dipping in and out of the latest Jenny Colgan novel, bossa nova music softly playing in the background. Secret husband Colin Firth (dressed in his Mr Darcy finest) drifts in at regular intervals with a tray of freshly baked French pastries. Not a care in the world, I feel thoroughly pampered.
If only.
I’m certainly in favor of “reading all day,” and know I’m adequately skilled at “lounging by the fire,” i.e., hanging around in general (years of practice). 😀 As for the pajamas, it’s kind of my daily uniform anyway. Skip cleaning the bathroom and paying bills? Count me in!
About those “long phone conversations with friends.” Um, no thank you (read about my love-hate relationship with phones here).
But it would be nice nibbling on chocolates and sipping tea while binge watching The Great British Baking Show or All Creatures Great and Small.

Yet . . . could I really enjoy doing these things sans guilt and remorse? Or would I be thinking of the extra calories I can’t afford, how not fun it will be to play catch-up the following day? Will my never-ending to-do list hover in the background even as I wait for Paul Hollywood to shake a contestant’s hand? I was never a zen person, firmly believing in planning ahead, being prepared. Yep, a real stick-in-the mud.
I do think part of it is the aging thing. The older I get, the longer it takes to get simple stuff done — stuff I could whiz through twice as fast twenty years ago. So, it’s important that I keep to plan. I’ve settled on a sensible compromise: give myself small breaks throughout the day (quick YouTube fix, drown in a fave tune from my iTunes playlist, reach for a cookie, read a poem, arrange flowers).

I’m simply not capable of giving myself an entire day off, even if I can convince myself I deserve it. Call me crazy, but I’d much rather feel productive. Alternating work + play = much less guilt. 🙂
How about you? When was the last time you gave yourself an entire day off? Any advice for how to lessen the guilt? Maybe in my next life I can be ‘devil may care’ Jama. 😀
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Lovely and talented Michelle Kogan is hosting the Roundup at MoreArt4All. Be sure to zip on over to check out the full menu of poetic goodness being served up around the blogosphere this week. Have a good Memorial Day weekend!
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“I’d rather spend my leisure time doing what some people call my work and I call my fun.” ~ Jared Diamond
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